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Home » Why Estate Planning Is Crucial for Non-Married Couples

Why Estate Planning Is Crucial for Non-Married Couples

August 31, 2021Estate Planning

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Not all that long ago, an unmarried man and woman living together were thought of as “living in sin” and were often ostracized by society. Today, however, more and more couples are choosing to cohabitate prior to, or in lieu of, marriage. If you are one of those unmarried couples, a Grand Forks estate planning attorney at German Law explains why estate planning is crucial.

Is Marriage No Longer Desirable?

In one of those ironic twists of fate, people who are old enough to remember when living together outside the bonds of marriage was taboo are increasingly choosing to do just that. The number of cohabitating couples over age 50 grew 75 percent in just ten years. Moreover, older couples aren’t the only ones deciding to put off or forego altogether, getting legally married.  Figures released by the U.S. Census tell us that in 1968 only 0.1 percent of 18- to 24-year-olds and 0.2 percent of 25- to 34-year-olds lived with an unmarried partner, according to the Current Population Survey. Those same figures show that 50 years later, in 2018, almost 10 percent of 18- to 24-year-olds cohabitate, and 15 percent of 25- to 34-year-olds lived with an unmarried partner. Whether you are 25 or 65, if you are living together outside the bonds of marriage, a comprehensive estate plan is imperative.

How Can Estate Planning Help Unmarried Couples?

The reality is that the law still favors marriage. The act of legal marriage immediately confers a considerable amount of authority and benefits to your partner. Your new spouse becomes a legal heir to your estate. Your spouse also becomes your next of kin if medical decisions need to be made for you. The list is long and the only way you can even the playing field if you choose not to marry is through comprehensive estate planning.  An estate plan can help in a myriad of ways, including:

  • Making your partner a beneficiary of your estate. Although state intestate succession laws can vary somewhat, they all distribute an estate to a decedent’s legal heirs which include a spouse and/or close relatives only. Because you are not legally married, your partner would receive nothing from your estate – no matter how long you have been together. He/she would not even be entitled to sentimental personal property that you would undoubtedly want him/her to have. By executing a Will and/or creating a trust you ensure that your partner is a beneficiary of your estate and receives the assets you want him/her to have after you are gone.
  • Planning for the possibility of incapacity.  The reality is that if you were to become incapacitated tomorrow the law would not favor appointing your partner to take over control of your assets du incapacity.  Creating a revocable living trust that appoints you as the Trustee and your partner as the successor Trustee can help resolve this dilemma. Major assets are transferred into the trust and if you become incapacitated, your partner takes over as the Trustee, giving him/her control over those assets without the need to seek judicial approval.
  • Making sure your partner makes healthcare decisions for you if you cannot make them.  There may come a time when you are unable to make your own medical decisions and someone might have to make life-sustaining, or life-ending, medical decisions for you. If you want your partner to make those decisions, you need to execute the appropriate advance directive because if a judge is forced to decide who will be your health care agent the judge will likely not even consider your partner.
  • Ensuring that your wishes are honored. You may have very strong feelings about your own funeral and burial.  You, however, won’t be around to ensure that your own wishes are honored and if a dispute erupts with regard to who should make those decisions, a court will likely appoint a close family member instead of your partner. Fortunately, estate planning can ensure that your wishes are honored and that your partner is in charge of making discretionary funeral and burial decisions for you.

Contact a Grand Forks Estate Planning Attorney

Please join us for an upcoming FREE seminar. If you have additional questions about estate planning for unmarried couples, or you want to get started on your estate plan, contact a Grand Forks estate planning attorney at German Law by calling 701-738-0060 to schedule an appointment.

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Raymond German, Estate Planning Attorney
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Raymond J. German provides a wide range of estate planning services to his clients, with a primary focus on creating peace of mind providing for the security of their loved ones, reducing taxes and avoiding a probate, all with a well-crafted estate plan. Mr. German defines the mission statement for German Law as “Helping one family at a time pass on values, beliefs and finances, that can be shared for generations to come.”
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